Come on! We’ve all been there—staring into our closets and wondering what suits us according to “social norms.” “You’re too fat for this, “you’re too short.” These things often hinder people’s unique style.

But what if I told you not to pay a single heed to all these rules?

Ignore the “Shoulds”: The core message is to forget what you should do and what you should not. It’s important to put your joy first rather than societal judgments.

Embrace the Unexpected: Experiment with unorthodox pairings, and mix and match with contrasting styles. You can go with vintage and Gen Z, masculine and feminine, unique colour combos, etc., allowing for fresh and innovative looks.

Find Your Unique Signature: Discover what makes you, you? Is it a bold lip, a statement necklace, bold clothes or vibrant colours? Embrace what makes and feels like “you”. The goal is to let those distinctive traits shine, making your style truly your own. 

Don’t Be Afraid to Make a Statement: Fashion is a powerful tool of self-expression. Your style and outfit are an opportunity to communicate with the world about who you are. It can be any bold colour, something out of the box if it feels like YOU then go for it and don’t shy away. These bold risks are your reason to stand out in the crowd.

Comfort is Key:  True style blends confidence with comfort. When you are confident it shows. If you are not really happy with the way you look then just don’t go for it. It’s about the looks that align with your personality and make you feel good inside out rather than doing it for the sake of people who don’t even value themselves.

Focus on Quality Over Quantity: A thoughtfully curated wardrobe is not good just for you but for the planet too! Opting for quality and durable clothes you can create a classic and versatile style with sustainability. Classic well-made items never go out of style and can be worn season after season. Prioritize pieces that reflect your values—whether that means supporting ethical brands, opting for durable materials, or embracing vintage and second-hand finds.

Most Importantly: Have Fun! Fashion should be an enjoyable and liberating experience. Don’t take yourself too seriously and embrace the joy of experimentation.

Ultimately, the most important “rule” is to break free from all rules. Embrace your individuality, experiment with your style, and have fun with it! You are the architect of your aesthetic – so go out there and build something amazing. Don’t feel shy and feel the peace after you put yourself first and make yourself feel happy.

What are some fashion “rules” you’ve broken and loved the results? Share your experiences in the comments below!